May 5, 2003
by Kathy L. Gilbert
HONOLULU - Jo Ann Yoon Fukumoto, Kathleen A.
Thomas-Sano and Colleen Kyung Seen Chun are three strong United
Methodist women with a common history.
They are descendants of the first Korean immigrants
to Hawaii. Their grandmothers were "picture brides" - women who
sailed from Korea to Hawaii to marry Korean immigrants.
Fukumoto serves as co-chairperson of the California-Pacific
Annual Conference Committee. Thomas-Sano is a staff executive at
the United Methodist Commission on Religion and Race, Washington.
Chun is the first ordained woman of Asian descent in the United
Methodist Church and pastor of Trinity United Methodist Church in
Pearl City, Hawaii.
When they get together, there is a lot of laughter
and shared memories.
"My family ate steak with rice and kimchee,"
Chun says. "And as a teenager, yes, I wore scotch tape on my eyelids
so that my eyes would look, as we called it, 'double.' After all,
our goal was to look like Shelley Fabrey ... you know, the daughter
in the 'Donna Reed' show. In the back of my mind, I knew I was Korean
... genetics run very deep, but my identity was a hodgepodge uniquely
reflective of Hawaii."
Thomas-Sano's father is Irish-Welch and her mother
is Korean. Her maternal grandmother was a picture-bride and instilled
Korean pride in a young Kathleen.
"My grandmother used to spend six months with
us, and she shared a bedroom with me," Thomas-Sano recalls. "I probably
looked least Korean of all the grandchildren, and she used to tell
me that I should be proud to be Korean. In her broken English and
Korean, she would try to explain to me my history."
Thomas-Sano says she really didn't experience
racism until she went to the United States.
"I identify more with Asian Americans; I was
not raised in the white world," she says. She is the first Korean-American
elected staff in any of the agencies of the church.
Fukumoto's grandmother was an 18-year-old bride
who married a 38-year-old stranger when she arrived in Hawaii.
"My grandmother told me the story of her mother
taking her to the boat to come to Hawaii," she says. "She gave my
grandmother a picture of her future husband and said 'Don't look
at it until you are far away and can't see me or see the land.'"
When her grandmother looked at the picture of
a balding, older man who was to become her husband, she cried and
cried, Fukumoto says.
"Quite a few of the young women jumped ship or
killed themselves after they got here. My grandmother weathered
the storm on the boat and on land. She had six children, and they
were all Methodist."
Chun tells the story of learning about her heritage
when she was a first-grader at Kaiulani Elementary School.
"One of my classmates asked me what I was. I
must have been ahead of the times because I thought she was having
some gender confusion about me, so I stated emphatically that I
was a girl."
That answer was not what her friend wanted. She
was asking if Chun was Japanese or Chinese.
Not really knowing, Chun answered "both." The
answer seemed to satisfy her playmate and they played for the rest
of the day.
When her mother got home that night, she asked
her, "What am I?" Her mother told her she was Korean.
"The next day I told my new friend, 'I'm not
Japanese and I'm not Chinese. I'm Korean.' She looked at me as if
I had a contemptible disease, and said, 'I should have known. Koreans
are all liars.'
"From that day, feelings about my ethnicity have
been clouded with ignorance and embarrassment," she says.
Both her grandmothers were picture-brides from
Korea. Her paternal grandfather was a laborer in the sugar cane
fields on the Big Island. Her maternal grandfather worked for the
city of Honolulu. She recalled how her paternal grandmother worked
in the cane fields, accompanied by her young children who were either
carried on her back or tethered to her with a rope.
"This rich heritage of courage and faith should
be something to celebrate," she said. "Words from a silly 6-year-old
should not diminish that pride."
Chun preached at one of the worship services
during the April 24-27 United Methodist Centennial Celebration for
Korean American Mission in America.
"God has made so many things possible for me,"
she said. "I am chagrined to know that I am the first Korean-American
woman ordained in the United Methodist Church in America. I know
I have been the first woman appointed to many churches. I was the
first clergy appointed for the English-language ministries of Christ
United Methodist Church. I'm sure I was the first Korean-American
woman appointed to an inner-city black church. And I am the first
single clergywoman in our conference to adopt three children all
at once.
"When I look at the story of my life, I know
that I witness the sheer possibilities that are given by God," she
says. "Indeed, everything is possible with God."
United Methodist News Service
Kathy L. Gilbert is a United Methodist News Service news writer.
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